The Role of a Tutor

Is not to advise you what to do. It is to ask you what to do, then advise you to do it.
Examples:
I want to be your leader.
OK do it.
I want to be your Queen.
May involve multiple murder of very important heirs to the throne and sex change surgery…
OK do it.
I want to go to Mars. I want to discover a tribe of Martians. I want to be the first Earth girl they have ever seen, and to be worshipped, AS A GOD!
Crazy, but not as crazy as cutting off your own head. OK do it.